By Niki Packer
We're approaching Fall, and it's my favorite season change of the year. Who doesn't love pumpkin spice everything, football games, wiener roasts, cooler temperatures, and bigger clothes that make you look a little closer to your driver's license weight!?
The new season coming up makes me think a little about the seasons of life and how differently those seasons can look. The calling we have today, may not be where God sends us in the next season of our lives.
Robert Morris points out in his book "The God I Never Knew" that we don't own our spiritual gifts. The Holy Spirit distributes the gifts as He sees fit, according to what is needed in each situation. I think the same is true for our callings. We don't own them; God merely uses us to accomplish His purposes for this season. And in the previous or next season of our lives, He may choose to do something different in and through us.
David started out as a shepherd; spent some time as a musician; then was a nomad/warrior; and ended his last season as a king. Moses was raised a prince; became a shepherd; and ended up leading a nation. And while often Bible characters start out in what we would call an occupation and then shift into more of a ministry, I think both are their callings for that season of their lives. David certainly was doing ministry while shepherding and calming King Saul with his music.
So if you are entering a new season, fear not, you are not alone. God has great things for you in whatever season you find yourself. Your calling as well as your giftings may look a little different in the next season of your life, but embrace the change. When the Holy Spirit is flowing through you to others, He decides what calling is needed for your benefit and those around you. So be open handed with your calling in this season. You don't own it and you can trust the Holy Spirit to use you for His eternal purposes.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 For everything that happens in life - there is a season, a right time for everything under heaven. (The Voice)
By Debbie Legg
“Food tastes like oatmeal and color is just shades of gray.”
That was me describing a bout of depression. For me, depression results from turning anger in on myself.
Over the years I’ve learned some good ways to avoid going down that road. One particular source might seem a bit unconventional—a King who lived about 3,000 years ago.
David writes in Psalm 55, “my thoughts trouble me and I am distraught at the voice of the enemy…they bring down suffering upon me…My heart is in anguish within me; the terrors of death assail me…If my enemy were insulting me, I could endure it…but it is…my companion, my close friend.”
That’s a little more intense than gray oatmeal. More like a steaming hot iron, pressed down and running over his chest, searing his heart and soul.
David is not in denial about betrayal. He isn’t holding back. He knows what happened, who did it, and how he feels about it. Rather than stuff it all down inside (as I tend to do), justifying, or blowing it off, he pours it out, expressing his feelings in a prayer to God, which is much healthier.
David takes the next step and imagines justice in the situation, telling God what he wants Him to do: "Confuse the wicked, O Lord, confound their speech…Let death take my enemies by surprise, let them go down alive to the grave."
This is where I would have stopped, where my prayers would have ended. I would have continued to focus on myself and the problem. Then I would have turned it inward.
Fortunately David didn’t stop there, and shows me the better way. David reminds himself of what he knows about God’s character and the ways he has seen God come through before: “But I call to God, and the Lord saves me…He hears my voice. He ransoms me unharmed from the battle waged against me, even though many oppose me…Cast your cares on the Lord, and He will sustain you; He will never let the righteous fall….But you, O God, will bring down the wicked into the pit of corruption; bloodthirsty and deceitful men will not live out half their days.”
Reminded of God’s love, protection and provision, David leaves it all in God’s hands to do what He wills. I love how David closes out his prayer. In the simplest and shortest of closings, David writes, “But as for me, I trust in You.”
And that is the secret. Focusing not on our pain, not on those who hurt us but on God and His ways, leaving it all in His hands.
Pursuing my calling in confidence becomes a whole lot easier when I’m focused on God’s goodness.
My taste buds and vision are equally thankful.
by Amy Kemp
Colossians 3:15 says, "Let your hearts fall under the rule of the Anointed's peace (the peace you were called to as one body), and be thankful." (The Voice). The Message version phrases it this way, "Let the peace of Christ keep you in tune with each other. None of this going off and doing your own thing. And cultivate thankfulness."
The combination of these two versions of the same verse profoundly spoke to me recently. Allow me to expound.
I found it a strange phrase, "Let your hearts fall." Most often "heart" and "fall" are combined in my head when a heart falls in love. When you have "fallen" for someone, your emotion takes over. It is as if you have no power to stop what feels right to your heart. You simply fall. The scripture here, though, implies that there is a conscious effort to "LET" the heart fall. You give the heart permission to be exposed and to be vulnerable for the reward on the other side. You let go, intentionally - with ALL of the forethought.
If it is an intentional, planned relinquishing of control, to whom or what are you releasing your heart? The answer: the peace of Christ. Well, that is quite the reward! Back in the 80s, when I was in high school and girls talked about boys, we might say, "She's falling for him." What if we brought that dated language from the 80s back and thought through this verse within that context. Do you see yourself "falling for peace?" Would you let your heart fall for the peace of Christ? Would you relinquish control for the return on the other side?
Let's go further. Where does that peace lead? Check out the parenthetical phrase from The Voice version of this text. It leads to unity - one body. If we let go and let God, the result is not just peace but unity - the quality that holds us together and keeps us in tune (see The Message version) with each other. A band, an orchestra, an ensemble, and a choir, even if they are on the same page of music, under the direction of the same conductor, and playing at the same tempo will fail at the task of making beautiful music if they are out of tune.
In just one sentence, there is so much discovery: Let go! Fall for peace! Embrace unity!
And, then, the kicker. . ."and cultivate thankfulness." I never considered myself much of a farm girl, because growing up, my dad owned only 80 acres. We had a four-bottom disc and a four-row planter. That's about one step up from a mule. But, I remember one implement piece in the shed known as the cultivator. The job of that piece of equipment was to bring to the surface the moisture that was beneath the hard, scorched, dry soil at the base of the plants. Cultivating a field meant breaking through the top-layer exterior to the moist, rich soil beneath. And, that was all in an effort to bring refreshment and needed moisture to the plants.
Walk through the phrase with me now, "Cultivate thankfulness." Work it up. Break through your scorched exterior and reach down deep for the moist dirt. Beneath the surface there is reason to be thankful, but if you don't work at it, it will never bring refreshment to your life, to your soul, to your being. It's there, though, and you've been commanded to reach for it and expose it.
Seriously, you have to look at scripture some days and ask yourself, "How have I missed this before?" Then, go to your neighbor and ask, "Did you know this was here?" Share this awesome word!
By Niki Packer
Have you ever asked someone you loved what they were thinking? Or have you ever asked someone if there's something they want to say to you? Those can be dangerous questions, but they can also open wide the door of communication and take us deeper in our relationships and understanding of each other.
After I asked the Lord today what He wanted to say to the readers of the Called and Confident blog, I felt a challenge rising up from the Lord. What if, for the next 30 days, I asked the Lord each morning "What do you want to say to me today?" I often ask the Lord a specific question, and I will be silent and try to listen for His direction. But my challenge for the next few weeks, and one that I hope you will take with me, is to ask the Lord every morning before my day starts, "What do you want to say to me today?" And then be silent. Maybe some days He'll tell me how much He loves me. Maybe some days He'll have a mission for me. Maybe some days He'll share a secret with me. But with no agenda or preconceived ideas, I'm going to ask the Lord what He wants to say.
I'm reminded of young Samuel who was awakened in the night by the Lord calling his name. Finally after the third time, his sage mentor Eli advised him to say "Speak, for your servant is listening". In this instance the Lord had a warning for His people. But the Bible is full of stories of the many diverse messages God had for His people; all of them different and all of them important for such a time and place as that.
I invite you to join me for at least the next 30 days and begin every day by popping the dangerous but promising question, "What do you want to say to me today, Lord?"
We'd love to hear some of the messages He gives you. Comment below to join the discussion!
By Becky Payne
All I have ever wanted was to be a wife and mother, yet it has seemed that God was ignoring my desires! I have six nieces and nephews, and have been a dog mom to multiple dogs, but it is not the same! As fifty is rapidly approaching , I have finally accepted that I will never be a mom in the way I desire.
Though I have never birthed any children, God continues to show me...I am a mother. In my life, I have had many spiritual “children” who I have had the privilege of nurturing at various points in their life As a children/youth minister there were kids who came to me when they couldn’t talk with their parents...as a college professor and Sunday School teacher, I have had the privilege to teach many people...as a director of residents at a homeless shelter I was a mother figure guiding them through the effects of horrendous childhoods, loving them, and modeling for them how healthy relationships should look. In each of these roles, I have been called to mother.
My first Mother’s Day came several years ago when the minister told the congregation to look at your mom and tell her that you love her. Sitting next to me was a teenage boy who had been abandoned by his mom and had latched on to me. Leaning over, he put his head on my shoulder saying, “You’re my mom.” My heart broke that day...it broke wide open showing me the importance of my role as a surrogate mother.
In the Captivating Workbook the authors say: "Mothering someone is seeing them as they really are and calling them out to be that person. All women are called to mother. And all women are called to give birth. Women give birth to all kinds of things - to a book, to a church, or to a movement. Women give birth to ideas, to creative expressions to deeper walks with God, to deeper intimacy with Jesus. A woman is not less of a woman because she is not a wife or has not physically born a child. The heart and life of a woman is much more vast than that."
My heart is overflowing because of “my kids”. They have brought such joy into my life and I nearly missed it because of my desperation to have a family the way I wanted it. Many of you are desperately longing to be mothers for various reasons. My challenge for you is to see your calling to mother right where you are now. Who in your life needs love and nurture? Who could use a shoulder to cry on or a hug? God has placed people in your life that need you to lovingly guide them. I know it may not look like what you want, but I guarantee that you will be blessed beyond belief.
Isaiah 54:1 “Sing, barren woman, you who never bore a child; burst into song, shout for joy, you who were never in labor; because more are the children of the desolate woman than of her who has a husband,” says the Lord.”
Psalm 113:9 “He settles the childless woman in her home as a happy mother of children. Praise the Lord.”
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